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Re: up n quitting school [Re: Thebooedocksaint]
    #535478 - 03/10/11 11:18 AM (13 years, 8 months ago)

I could be totally wrong here, after all how much can you know about a person from reading a few pages on a thread.....

You sound like a spoiled rich kid. Parents were paying for everything from bills to health insurance, and you even had some account that you tried to steal your parent's money from before you left.

Now your cut off. The real world is harsh. I used to envy people like you but now I realize I learned so much more about the world being born poor.

You made a mistake, but so what! I have made far worse. It's how you deal with the mistake that counts. It is probably best for you to break away from your parents and learn to live with out their help.

My best friend for years was similar. Her parents had money. She had a job here or there and even went to various trade schools and colleges. She has the world at her feet. She could do anything she wants. She could travel, Open any business, Go to any college of her choice.

She's addicted to prescription meds. She is the most unhealthy person I know. She has no motivation what so ever. She is constantly depressed. In the end we lost touch and I am kinda glad because she was just depressing to be around.

I hope good things come from your fuck up and you don't end up like my friend.

Hope I did not come across like an ass hole. I am just trying to point out that although you fucked up bad, there still can be a good end result.

Don't call your parents and ask for help. Figure it out. Grow as a person.

Done with my rant. I think I better wake and bake today....

Good luck.

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Re: up n quitting school [Re: ShroomieGirl]
    #535486 - 03/10/11 11:32 AM (13 years, 8 months ago)

Damn girl, Sorry to hear about that. Give it time, its only been a month or so right? You guys just started to date. I really hope this works for ya, takes serious balls to just drop everything and move away. When he comes home, go for a walk or jog or something. That's what I do to get an escape, Pop my headphones in and just go walking. Gives me time to think.

Good luck

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OfflineShroomieGirl
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Re: up n quitting school [Re: Pandor]
    #535493 - 03/10/11 11:50 AM (13 years, 8 months ago)

nah dude, i dont take it personally, and no i wasnt gonna call my parents about this shit. i got myself in it, i gotta get myself out.  besides, im too proud to admit i was wrong to my parents because i know my face would be rubbed in it till the end of time just like every other mistake ive made in front of my parents.

my plan is to get a job, move out, move on. i dont see any good coming from this if it keeps going the way it is.  my mistake thinking this would actually go well.

oops.

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Re: up n quitting school [Re: BigBudz]
    #535495 - 03/10/11 12:01 PM (13 years, 8 months ago)

Get some fake pee of ebay. I don't blame you for quiting college its a pain in the fucking cock if you ask me. At worst you can be get into the organic farming program they have, easy living:bigblunt:

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Re: up n quitting school [Re: ShroomieGirl]
    #535544 - 03/10/11 03:17 PM (13 years, 8 months ago)

Bummer
Hope things get better.



Thanks for reminding me about parents rubbing past mistakes.

Gota find my sweet little priness bitch and shake up her day.:rofl:


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InvisibleFurrowedBrowM
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Re: up n quitting school [Re: KaptKid]
    #535549 - 03/10/11 03:23 PM (13 years, 8 months ago)

This happened to you for a reason.  Who knows what that reason is.  I'm sure the experience will only make you stronger.  chin up!  the future is full of nothing but hope.


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Invisiblestill beLIEve
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Re: up n quitting school [Re: FurrowedBrow]
    #535626 - 03/10/11 06:01 PM (13 years, 8 months ago)

Quote:

FurrowedBrow said:
  the future is full of nothing but hope.




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niteowl said:
See, that term pedo gets thrown around a lot.
Is a 16 year old guy having sex w/a 16 year old girl a pedophile?
If not, then how is a 30 year old considered a pedophile for doing the same thing?
I think y'all need to look up the definition for pedophile.

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Re: up n quitting school [Re: ShroomieGirl]
    #535665 - 03/10/11 07:23 PM (13 years, 8 months ago)

Come live in my house. Its full of dudes that are constantly drunk and loud but its a fun place to be :vaped:

:lol:


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Re: up n quitting school [Re: RasJeph]
    #535718 - 03/10/11 08:42 PM (13 years, 8 months ago)

I would take you up on that offer


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Invisiblestill beLIEve
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Re: up n quitting school [Re: T-Rex]
    #535745 - 03/10/11 10:38 PM (13 years, 8 months ago)

Quote:

T-Rex said:
I would take you up on that offer




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niteowl said:
See, that term pedo gets thrown around a lot.
Is a 16 year old guy having sex w/a 16 year old girl a pedophile?
If not, then how is a 30 year old considered a pedophile for doing the same thing?
I think y'all need to look up the definition for pedophile.

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Re: up n quitting school [Re: still beLIEve]
    #535815 - 03/11/11 08:17 AM (13 years, 8 months ago)

Sounds like you took shit too fast with your e-boyfriend.  Him telling you that he needs space means that he is like, tired of you probably.

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OfflineShroomieGirl
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Re: up n quitting school [Re: SmOakland]
    #538885 - 03/22/11 07:51 AM (13 years, 7 months ago)

single again, nursing a broken heart... oh well... now i need to figure out what the hell to do from here.

He blamed it on his mood swings... he has horrible mood swings where when hes down hes just "not sure" how he feels about anything, including me, but when hes up hes so affectionate n shit.  its confusing as shit.  every time he gets down i get all sad, take it personally, and he said he doesnt want to hurt me anymore by all that.  how much of that is true, or how much of it is an excuse, i dont know. ill never know.

Were still living together because im just starting a job, and cant afford an apartment of my own yet.  its a little akward walking around and seeing what you want but cant have anymore.  kinda hurts. 

yes, i dont need you guys to rub it in, i know i fucked up by doing this... messed up some pretty decent options i had available that arent open anymore.

I think i need to get out of this place.  Ive been trying to stay over at friends places, but i always need to come back here cuz well, all my shits here.  Im thinking it would help me get over things, and let him have his space, if i left/stay away.

I just had so much hope for this... fuck. oh well.

time to move on... 

:suicide:


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Re: up n quitting school [Re: ShroomieGirl] * 1
    #538919 - 03/22/11 12:34 PM (13 years, 7 months ago)

You shouldn't be afraid or too fucking arrogant to ask your parents for help and apologize, I am sure they miss you. You know you were wrong why make things worse on yourself.

I am as left wing as it gets but my dad is super right wing. He doesn't talk to his sister anymore because she married a black male, complains about paying taxes constantly even for things like FAFSA(where my financial aid comes from), hit me when I first told him I smoked weed, I completely disagree with him on a lot of subjects. I still get some support from him and I am thankful for that. Your parents are your parents. You can't change that, but don't neglect them because of it.

Also get over yourself and your crappy internet BF and move on. It needs to happen.

:awethumb:

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Re: up n quitting school [Re: Dephect]
    #538941 - 03/22/11 01:20 PM (13 years, 7 months ago)

yep, time to move on.  I htink we can find fault in every decision we make in our lives.  I don't think its really healthy to dwell on those things too much.  you are where you are.  Find out where you want to be and figure out how to make that happen.


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OfflineThebooedocksaint
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Re: up n quitting school [Re: FurrowedBrow]
    #538956 - 03/22/11 02:28 PM (13 years, 7 months ago)

Quote:

Find out where you want to be and figure out how to make that happen.




QFT


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InvisibleFarBeyondDriven
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Re: up n quitting school [Re: Thebooedocksaint]
    #539022 - 03/22/11 09:15 PM (13 years, 7 months ago)

Quote:

Thebooedocksaint said:
Quote:

Find out where you want to be and figure out how to make that happen.




QFT





I disagree.

I think she should find out where she wants to be and figure out how to make that happen.  Just my opinion of course.  I'm no Dr. Phil though. :shrug:


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Re: up n quitting school [Re: ShroomieGirl]
    #539031 - 03/22/11 10:10 PM (13 years, 7 months ago)

You should live with Coaster :happyweed:


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Invisiblestill beLIEve
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Re: up n quitting school [Re: still beLIEve]
    #539061 - 03/22/11 11:04 PM (13 years, 7 months ago)

Quote:

still beLIEve said:
Quote:

FurrowedBrow said:
  the future is full of nothing but hope.







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niteowl said:
See, that term pedo gets thrown around a lot.
Is a 16 year old guy having sex w/a 16 year old girl a pedophile?
If not, then how is a 30 year old considered a pedophile for doing the same thing?
I think y'all need to look up the definition for pedophile.

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OfflineShroomieGirl
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Re: up n quitting school [Re: Coaster]
    #539147 - 03/23/11 06:25 AM (13 years, 7 months ago)

fuck yea dude, ill pack up my shit and head out today.

keep the door unlocked :awesome:



and to everyone else, thanks for the support n positive vibes... its hard to give a fuck about anytyhing at the moment, but im trying to stay positive n keep my mind off shit. 

im hoping i dont have to work this weekend because i got a trip planned... somewhat of a temporary escape to get out of his place n spend some time with friends.  the interesting? thing is that this was one of his friends who invited me down to visit.  i dont think the ex will go because hes "cleaning up" and doesnt want to party at the moment, so i think itll just be me n her and a few other people chillin for her birthday weekend.  itll be nice to get out of the house for a few days... spend some time with people that care...

anyway, enough rambling..

thanks again for all the support guys :hug:


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Re: up n quitting school [Re: ShroomieGirl]
    #539150 - 03/23/11 06:31 AM (13 years, 7 months ago)

how long were ya'll like "together" or whatever?  i mean, you seem to be takin this kind of hard.  i'm under the impression this wasn't a long term relationship.  correct me if i'm wrong.  but if i'm right, you really should just move on and get over it because if it wasn't a long term thing then you might be blowing this just a liiiitttle out of proportion.


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