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 bonlives
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 feels bad man (warning woman problem post) 
#664358 - 03/30/13 11:18 PM (11 years, 8 months ago) |
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Long time reader, only posted a couple questions before... been wanting to take the plunge and start posting for a while now.
I've been dating this girl for three years (oh man here we go) shes broke my heart like 5 times.
this should be the last bc she cheated on me 
she has low self esteem and i kinda saw it coming and fought it like hell. bc she was hanging out with "work friends" who r guys and i just totally saw it coming. like they were waiting for us to break up i met them a couple times.
Thing is I hate her, but I love her so much and shes really depressed and feels ugly so i dont even blame her. so this is where i come for advice bc I respect ur guys opinions.
Been reading about low self esteem for weeks going "Damn I hope she does nt fuck a coworker". sorry if the grammer or layout is annoying im not all here. Cant even smoke pot it would make me feeel worse.
My best friend from elementry school on is coming over so i ay not respond till tommorow.
So my real question is, shall I give it a week for her to miss me? I always get right back with her bc im determined. write fucking letters and make her art out of all the tickets from movies we went to together. I saved almost all of them.
honestly u can just tell me im a bitch.
oo also key info shes my first real gf(actually second first was a retarded fling that went nowhere". Only girl ive ever had sex with. Was very proud of that and wanted to be the equivelent of married. Very stupid sounding being im not even halfway to 30
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 Deadkndys420
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Re: feels bad man (warning woman problem post) [Re: bonlives] 1
#664359 - 03/30/13 11:22 PM (11 years, 8 months ago) |
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bonlives said:
shes broke my heart like 5 times.
this should be the last bc she cheated on me
Ditch her and move on she is obviously not good for you.
If you stay with her don't be surprised when she does it again.
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P-O
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Re: feels bad man (warning woman problem post) [Re: Deadkndys420] 1
#664360 - 03/30/13 11:27 PM (11 years, 8 months ago) |
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MOVE ON
dont be such a lil bitch
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KaptKid
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Re: feels bad man (warning woman problem post) [Re: P-O]
#664363 - 03/30/13 11:35 PM (11 years, 8 months ago) |
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PositiveOutlook said:
MOVE ON
dont be such a lil bitch
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bonlives
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Re: feels bad man (warning woman problem post) [Re: KaptKid]
#664370 - 03/31/13 01:19 AM (11 years, 8 months ago) |
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Thanks guys, I hear that from everyone including her so im gonna go with it. I needed people to tell me that 
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RasJeph
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Re: feels bad man (warning woman problem post) [Re: bonlives] 2
#664377 - 03/31/13 04:55 AM (11 years, 8 months ago) |
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Hey bro. I went through similar shit myself. Dated a girl for 5 years, always knew something was up. We lived together for 2 years or so and she cheeated on me with some work fag.
The minute I found out I kicked her the Fuck out. It was literally the hardest thing I've ever done. But I'm telling you now, man up and do it. You prolly don't realize how much its fucking with you. Thinking back on it, when I kicked her out was the first time in my life I was a real man. I don't mean not crying, I cried like a bitch. But I mean taking control of myself and not letting my emotions win. You'll feel much better with her gone, even if it takes a while to see it.
I'd be a liar if I said I didn't miss the companionship I had, but its better to wake up alone than it is to wake up hating and not trusting your partner.
Plus, its fun to watch your ex get fat and do heroin and live in a crack house and go to jail.
You're dodging a bullet brother, she's not worth the stress.
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Of course it's happening inside your head.
Why should that mean it isn't real?
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Hawksresurrection
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Re: feels bad man (warning woman problem post) [Re: RasJeph]
#664378 - 03/31/13 05:03 AM (11 years, 8 months ago) |
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RasJeph said:
Hey bro. I went through similar shit myself. Dated a girl for 5 years, always knew something was up. We lived together for 2 years or so and she cheeated on me with some work fag.
The minute I found out I kicked her the Fuck out. It was literally the hardest thing I've ever done. But I'm telling you now, man up and do it. You prolly don't realize how much its fucking with you. Thinking back on it, when I kicked her out was the first time in my life I was a real man. I don't mean not crying, I cried like a bitch. But I mean taking control of myself and not letting my emotions win. You'll feel much better with her gone, even if it takes a while to see it.
I'd be a liar if I said I didn't miss the companionship I had, but its better to wake up alone than it is to wake up hating and not trusting your partner.
Plus, its fun to watch your ex get fat and do heroin and live in a crack house and go to jail.
You're dodging a bullet brother, she's not worth the stress.
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Dude she isn't as young as she use to be.
-niteowl
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Kassim
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Registered: 03/31/13
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Re: feels bad man (warning woman problem post) [Re: bonlives]
#664559 - 04/01/13 01:35 PM (11 years, 8 months ago) |
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Only girl ive ever had sex with. Was very proud of that and wanted to be the equivelent of married. Very stupid sounding being im not even halfway to 30
so wait, how old are you? 
also i noticed you say she is depressed and you feel sorry for her...well, don't. feeling sorry for her isn't doing you or her any favors.
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Hawksresurrection
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Re: feels bad man (warning woman problem post) [Re: Kassim] 1
#664560 - 04/01/13 01:41 PM (11 years, 8 months ago) |
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Woah, you're not 18? 
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Dude she isn't as young as she use to be.
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iStoner
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Re: feels bad man (warning woman problem post) [Re: Hawksresurrection] 1
#664567 - 04/01/13 04:14 PM (11 years, 8 months ago) |
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Quote:
hawksapprentice said:
Quote:
RasJeph said:
Hey bro. I went through similar shit myself. Dated a girl for 5 years, always knew something was up. We lived together for 2 years or so and she cheeated on me with some work fag.
The minute I found out I kicked her the Fuck out. It was literally the hardest thing I've ever done. But I'm telling you now, man up and do it. You prolly don't realize how much its fucking with you. Thinking back on it, when I kicked her out was the first time in my life I was a real man. I don't mean not crying, I cried like a bitch. But I mean taking control of myself and not letting my emotions win. You'll feel much better with her gone, even if it takes a while to see it.
I'd be a liar if I said I didn't miss the companionship I had, but its better to wake up alone than it is to wake up hating and not trusting your partner.
Plus, its fun to watch your ex get fat and do heroin and live in a crack house and go to jail.
You're dodging a bullet brother, she's not worth the stress.
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