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budnectar
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I'll never understand
#605428 - 01/17/12 12:15 AM (12 years, 8 months ago) |
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why some women have no balls.
This is the second night a lady from down the street has come banging on my door seeking refuge from her abusive husband. The first night a couple months ago I'm pulling up just got off work and I do a double take cause I thought maybe I didn't see barefoot mother and daughter, hysterical, duckin in my neighbors' bushes. Not 15 minutes later do I hear knocking and sure enough it's this 30 y/o lady with her 10 y/o daughter -barefoot- asking to hide in my apartment and use my phone. Apparently, her husband was drunk and got pissed when their pizza was delivered to the wrong address. They left when he started firing his gun through the roof- he's military with PTSD (but more like sociopath from what I hear). I told her call the fucking police if you love your kid.
Well, she was back tonight because he choked her until she passed out outside their flat. But he had her kids this time. She still wouldn't call the goddamn police. She called her parents, but come to find out her father is abusive to her mother- go figure. So they're probably duking it out like the trash they are and not calling the cops for the sake of the kids but rather save their own ass.
I really feel for those kids who will probably grow up and continue the cycle of abusive relationships because their mom is too chicken shit to stand up. I was tempted to slap the shit outta/sense into that lady but what would that have solved. None of those people give a flyin fuck about the kids. I'd really like to have done something but that's not really an option when you have weed/growing.
Such trash. I'm disgusted. And if Rick Perry/Santorum becomes president, I'm shooting my way out of the country.
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T-Rex
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Re: I'll never understand [Re: budnectar]
#605436 - 01/17/12 01:17 AM (12 years, 8 months ago) |
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Post the dudes address/name/phone number
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DungenessDank
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Re: I'll never understand [Re: budnectar]
#605447 - 01/17/12 05:01 AM (12 years, 8 months ago) |
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budnectar said: None of those people give a flyin fuck about the kids.
Nailed it.
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RasJeph
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There are very very few times I see it fit to call the police. I feel like everyone should be able to handle everything on their own.
But when I see something innocent (a child, an animal, etc) getting abused, thats where I draw the line and make the call. Something that can't really defend itself needs your assistance.
Call from a pay phone, an anonymous tip. Don't even call the cops if you don't want, call social services. Odds are the kids know whats going on. At least they will come and save them.
If the mother allows shit like that to happen in front of her kids and isn't strong enough to get the fuck out of the situation, she deserves to have them taken away. That simple.
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DungenessDank
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Re: I'll never understand [Re: RasJeph]
#605458 - 01/17/12 06:52 AM (12 years, 8 months ago) |
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I tend to agree, only because the law is set up in the fashion that it is the only way you can protect the child while also protecting your own ass.
I don't think people necessarily should have complete forced ownership or responsibility for their child, nor do I think children should be forced to stay where they don't want to be because they lack "rights" us adult humans have, making them property.
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CrayolaHalls
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Re: I'll never understand [Re: budnectar]
#605469 - 01/17/12 12:44 PM (12 years, 8 months ago) |
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Quote:
budnectar said: why some women have no balls.
This is the second night a lady from down the street has come banging on my door seeking refuge from her abusive husband. The first night a couple months ago I'm pulling up just got off work and I do a double take cause I thought maybe I didn't see barefoot mother and daughter, hysterical, duckin in my neighbors' bushes. Not 15 minutes later do I hear knocking and sure enough it's this 30 y/o lady with her 10 y/o daughter -barefoot- asking to hide in my apartment and use my phone. Apparently, her husband was drunk and got pissed when their pizza was delivered to the wrong address. They left when he started firing his gun through the roof- he's military with PTSD (but more like sociopath from what I hear). I told her call the fucking police if you love your kid.
Well, she was back tonight because he choked her until she passed out outside their flat. But he had her kids this time. She still wouldn't call the goddamn police. She called her parents, but come to find out her father is abusive to her mother- go figure. So they're probably duking it out like the trash they are and not calling the cops for the sake of the kids but rather save their own ass.
I really feel for those kids who will probably grow up and continue the cycle of abusive relationships because their mom is too chicken shit to stand up. I was tempted to slap the shit outta/sense into that lady but what would that have solved. None of those people give a flyin fuck about the kids. I'd really like to have done something but that's not really an option when you have weed/growing.
Such trash. I'm disgusted. And if Rick Perry/Santorum becomes president, I'm shooting my way out of the country.
I don't know you, but if you don't call social services you will have confirmed for yourself that you are a piece of shit.
I work with kids in abusive situations and I have to deal with half-assed excuses from fuck-tards who are trying to explain why they felt they shouldn't get involved. None of the excuses are good enough to explain why they couldn't help prevent a kid from getting terrorized, beaten, raped, etc... This kind of thing defines the word "selfish".
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King Koopa
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Quote:
DungenessDank said: I tend to agree, only because the law is set up in the fashion that it is the only way you can protect the child while also protecting your own ass.
I don't think people necessarily should have complete forced ownership or responsibility for their child, nor do I think children should be forced to stay where they don't want to be because they lack "rights" us adult humans have, making them property.
I can a few people I know personally who I think shouldn't own their kids. The hood and suburbs should burned down, also. Just sayin, brah
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budnectar
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Re: I'll never understand [Re: King Koopa]
#605513 - 01/17/12 04:11 PM (12 years, 8 months ago) |
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I'm calling the SS today after work but I'm prolly still a piece of shit for plenty other reasons.
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RasJeph
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Re: I'll never understand [Re: budnectar]
#605538 - 01/17/12 05:44 PM (12 years, 8 months ago) |
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Any step in the right direction is a leap in the right direction in todays world dude.
You'll sleep a little easier at night man
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budnectar
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Re: I'll never understand [Re: RasJeph]
#605547 - 01/17/12 06:50 PM (12 years, 8 months ago) |
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Hmm Idk. The response I got from the people wasn't very reassuring. Goddamn bureaucracy.
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