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 T-Rex
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#531168 - 02/27/11 03:51 AM (13 years, 8 months ago) |
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She's 15 and has had some drinks before, but she's never bought alcohol, nor done any drugs.
I've told her before that if she needs to know anything about drugs/alcohol that she can ask me, I try to make myself a source of information for things that she doesn't want to ask mum about. I told her my history with alcohol and why I don't drink very often, then she asked me my history with drugs.
I was hesitant at first to tell her the ones I've taken (xtc, cid, shrooms, weed, mdma, along with the San Pedro which I will make Mescaline with soon enough) so first I told her that the most important thing to do before she takes any mind altering substance is research. Knowing what is going into your body, what it will do, why it will do it, and then to figure out how much to take, how long it should be before it takes effect, and how long it will last. I kept pushing the fact that knowledge is the key in any new experience, drug induced or not and she seemed to agree which was relieving.
She was pretty surprised when she heard my list, but not shocked. She asked a few questions about each one, then told me she had no intent on taking any drugs till she is older which was awesome.
I still haven't decided what I'm going to do about buying her alcohol, I know that its nothing for a 15y/o to drink nowadays, but I was still pretty straight edge when I was that age and I'm not sure if I want to actually buy her something just yet, I'll probably talk it over with my gf first as we've been together for almost 3years and she is pretty much an older sister to my actual sister.
If I do end up buying her something I'll get her a 6pack of some shitty mixed vodka candy water, but I was just wondering if you guys have had a similar experience with younger siblings asking about drugs/alcohol and how you handled it?
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 Re: My sister just asked me to buy her booze [Re: T-Rex]
#531169 - 02/27/11 04:03 AM (13 years, 8 months ago) |
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Buy her non-alcoholic beer and lace it with hash oil or opiates.
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MFDoom666
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Re: My sister just asked me to buy her booze [Re: T-Rex]
#531170 - 02/27/11 04:26 AM (13 years, 8 months ago) |
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i fucked up and partied with my little sister too much.
at first it was cool but then shit hit the fan.
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FurrowedBrow said:
They should teach african engineering at the college level. mcgyver 101
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Has anyone really been far even as decided to use even go want to do look more like?
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Re: My sister just asked me to buy her booze [Re: MFDoom666]
#531172 - 02/27/11 04:50 AM (13 years, 8 months ago) |
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I can't see her getting into bud or anything too hardcore, but I can see her getting shitface drunk in a few months/years. All her friends at her school are ditzy sluts, makes me sick.
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Re: My sister just asked me to buy her booze [Re: MFDoom666]
#531173 - 02/27/11 04:53 AM (13 years, 8 months ago) |
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You're a good bro T-Rex  That's basically what I did with my younger sister too. I told her before she does anything to research it and if you have any questions to come to me. I was also really hesitant telling my sister about my drug history. I handled that by just telling her bits and pieces over time as she got older. I'm guiding her through the drug realm basically
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Re: My sister just asked me to buy her booze [Re: MFDoom666]
#531174 - 02/27/11 04:59 AM (13 years, 8 months ago) |
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my sister bought me some vodka when i was 15, i had asked her how much would be enough to get us fucked up and a bunch of other info, i get to my friends house and some chick tells me what you only bought one bottle for the 4 of us? thats not gonna get us fucked up! stupid as we were back then we started doing shots complaining how we didnt feel anything other than a sore stomach  needless to say only from experience did we learn how to drink... somewhat 
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Re: My sister just asked me to buy her booze [Re: T-Rex]
#531183 - 02/27/11 07:23 AM (13 years, 8 months ago) |
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I don't know a single 15 year old I'd buy booze for. But then, I don't have any siblings either. Its probably a lot different if you're that close to someone.
Actually, I'd buy them booze if they were going to be drinking it with/around me (as in, the same party or area). That way if shit got out of control I could be there to kidnap them in my trunk until they sobered up
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Re: My sister just asked me to buy her booze [Re: RasJeph]
#531185 - 02/27/11 07:28 AM (13 years, 8 months ago) |
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She is planning on consuming it at a party/predrinks before going to an under 18's festival/concert thing
So far I'm thinking I get her a 6pack of vodka cruisers or some UDL's and letting her take 3, and I'll keep the other 3 in my own fridge for the next party she wants to go to
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Re: My sister just asked me to buy her booze [Re: T-Rex]
#531192 - 02/27/11 08:39 AM (13 years, 8 months ago) |
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Younger family members always asked me to buy them booze I never did.
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Re: My sister just asked me to buy her booze [Re: T-Rex]
#531201 - 02/27/11 09:40 AM (13 years, 8 months ago) |
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Quote:
T-Rex said:
She is planning on consuming it at a party/predrinks before going to an under 18's festival/concert thing
So far I'm thinking I get her a 6pack of vodka cruisers or some UDL's and letting her take 3, and I'll keep the other 3 in my own fridge for the next party she wants to go to
seems like a legit way to do things. give her a taste but not enough to get drunk.
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niteowl said:
See, that term pedo gets thrown around a lot.
Is a 16 year old guy having sex w/a 16 year old girl a pedophile?
If not, then how is a 30 year old considered a pedophile for doing the same thing?
I think y'all need to look up the definition for pedophile.
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Re: My sister just asked me to buy her booze [Re: still beLIEve]
#531202 - 02/27/11 09:45 AM (13 years, 8 months ago) |
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My brother used to buy me alcohol, but I'd he'd have to be in te same area
Then as he saw I got more responsible he stopped caring and let me do what i want with it.
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Re: My sister just asked me to buy her booze [Re: still beLIEve]
#531206 - 02/27/11 10:03 AM (13 years, 8 months ago) |
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still beLIEve said:
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T-Rex said:
She is planning on consuming it at a party/predrinks before going to an under 18's festival/concert thing
So far I'm thinking I get her a 6pack of vodka cruisers or some UDL's and letting her take 3, and I'll keep the other 3 in my own fridge for the next party she wants to go to
seems like a legit way to do things. give her a taste but not enough to get drunk.
Some kids can't drink 3 coolers and remember where they are.
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Re: My sister just asked me to buy her booze [Re: maryanne3087]
#531208 - 02/27/11 10:14 AM (13 years, 8 months ago) |
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This is what I'm doing with my little brother, although he's straight edge and says he doesn't want to try drugs or drink any time soon. He asks me questions I give him information.
I'm not sure if would buy her alcohol though. Is it for just her.
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Re: My sister just asked me to buy her booze [Re: still beLIEve]
#531299 - 02/27/11 06:15 PM (13 years, 8 months ago) |
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Quote:
still beLIEve said:
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T-Rex said:
She is planning on consuming it at a party/predrinks before going to an under 18's festival/concert thing
So far I'm thinking I get her a 6pack of vodka cruisers or some UDL's and letting her take 3, and I'll keep the other 3 in my own fridge for the next party she wants to go to
seems like a legit way to do things. give her a taste but not enough to get drunk.
Sounds like a decent plan. Definitely don't let her turn into one of those sluts at her school. Watch her and actually be a brother if she's gonna start gettin fucked up. Fifteen is a pretty critical age imo. I'd like to 13-20 over again
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Re: My sister just asked me to buy her booze [Re: FarBeyondDriven]
#531306 - 02/27/11 06:25 PM (13 years, 8 months ago) |
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there's really nothing you can do to stop someone from being a "slut".
ime the harder you try to prevent such a thing the bigger the trollop they become.
just be cool and don't try to force anything.
people hate being told what to do and act like.
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FurrowedBrow said:
They should teach african engineering at the college level. mcgyver 101
Harry_Ba11sach said:
Has anyone really been far even as decided to use even go want to do look more like?
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Re: My sister just asked me to buy her booze [Re: MFDoom666]
#531309 - 02/27/11 06:28 PM (13 years, 8 months ago) |
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Quote:
MFDoom666 said:
there's really nothing you can do to stop someone from being a "slut".
ime the harder you try to prevent such a thing the bigger the trollop they become.
just be cool and don't try to force anything.
people hate being told what to do and act like.
Good point actually. When I was that age, nobody could tell me anything. Just look out for your little sister man, try to keep her safe as much as you can.
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Re: My sister just asked me to buy her booze [Re: FarBeyondDriven]
#531313 - 02/27/11 06:37 PM (13 years, 8 months ago) |
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that's about all you can do.
don't be disappointed when things don't turn out as you'd like, you can either let your little sister stress you the fuck out or you can deal with it.
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FurrowedBrow said:
They should teach african engineering at the college level. mcgyver 101
Harry_Ba11sach said:
Has anyone really been far even as decided to use even go want to do look more like?
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Re: My sister just asked me to buy her booze [Re: MFDoom666]
#531316 - 02/27/11 06:43 PM (13 years, 8 months ago) |
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Growing up is tough these days. Tryin to stay out of bullshit and do the smart thing. If I could go back and do those years again man, wow, I would be a much different person today than I am now. I had pretty much college set up for me, all I had to do was go to school and do my shit. I was smart too, school was relatively easy for me, I just decided not to go and go out and get fucked up everyday. 
Don't let your sister do that T Rex
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Re: My sister just asked me to buy her booze [Re: FarBeyondDriven]
#531365 - 02/27/11 08:44 PM (13 years, 8 months ago) |
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There is no way I could even try to control her, all I can do if arm her with information and send her into the trenches. She's pretty strong minded and not an idiot, I'm just trying to help her do better at school/life than I did at that age.
High school was just a meeting place for me and drug dealers, I hated class, but I know she likes school so far which is good. Only thing I'm worried about is if other people will give her stuff. I told her that its fine for her to give her drinks away, but its never ok to accept a drink, especially one that's already open or been premixed, I warned her about the dangers of mixing alcohols and gave her a few stories about how I woke up in the driveway with crusty vomit in my hair/clothes and she seemed pretty against doing anything that stupid.
I've decided to give her 3cans of UDL's with an alcohol content of 4.5% (9proof) and see how she handles it.
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Re: My sister just asked me to buy her booze [Re: T-Rex]
#531367 - 02/27/11 08:51 PM (13 years, 8 months ago) |
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teach her how to shotgun.
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FurrowedBrow said:
They should teach african engineering at the college level. mcgyver 101
Harry_Ba11sach said:
Has anyone really been far even as decided to use even go want to do look more like?
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